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A Letter to myself:
Lately I’ve been feeling pretty good, things have been going well for me at the shows, like I have a plan, so I think this is the best...
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![Which ‘You’s are you carrying around with you?](https://static.wixstatic.com/media/03a22b_b84c0b242129493ba126a33a608e3626~mv2_d_4096_3301_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_319,h_240,fp_0.50_0.50,q_90,enc_auto/03a22b_b84c0b242129493ba126a33a608e3626~mv2_d_4096_3301_s_4_2.jpg)
Which ‘You’s are you carrying around with you?
I was invited to a friend’s pool the other day and while I was getting ready I was noticing all the things I don’t like about my body. I...
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Confidence is a choice
Heading into the next show season, I always get feeling a little nervous. But this year was a little extra. I got questioning my...
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Nobody knows where to start with this kind of thing….
When you lose a loved one no matter how expected it always seems too soon…this is how I felt when we recently lost my grandmother....
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Why do we show??
We have all heard the old saying, “You lose more than you win”. American rider Kent Farrington has recently been #1 in the world and even...
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To push myself or not....???
I always balked at the idea of pushing myself too hard (or having someone push me harder) because I always associated it with the...